H moving out!! Crisis I need help

[Trying2live]

I am currently asking for some input on that, so I am able to give you more info.
Yes the group is exactly right. Exposure is so important because it takes away from the excitement, mystery and fantasy land of sneaking around. Then once more people find out, there is strain on the relationship and isn't as fun as it was. Once that's all gone, these betrayers will realize that men or women are all the same and have universal needs and act universally the same and that hey maybe my W or H wasn't so bad.

I have heard where you dress nicely and go into the boss or owner of the company and behind closed doors you tell them and you say you would like to try and salvage your marriage and reconcile if possible.

I went into the office of my H employer when I picked up the paycheck that next day. Told the secretary and 2 office girls, told H whole family, my whole family , all our very close church friends, the OW fiance. I told them all. I would have went to her parents too if I knew where they lived. I figured I already lost my husband why the heck should I care about whether or not they are upset with me. She has seen me in passing with my children at the office and she could have cared less. She still had the A with my husband.
So take the excitement out of it. It's only way for as much as I've read. I am waiting on some more info and will post it for you once I get it.