I think disclosure is important... I know I'm part of a group here locally http://www.beyondaffairs.com has local support groups and most the ladies I've talked to said they did expose there H and the OW and even talked with the OW.... part of the excitment is the sneaking around.
I know plenty of people where the OW works but I don't know how to get her manager to know... I thought of having a friend call and leave a voice mail about them... I really want my H boss to find out.. I don't think he'll get fired (not sure) but I would think his boss would talk wtih him about it.
Once it is in the open they can't hide.... and our H have to be accountable. Tough decision...
would love to hear if anyone has gone down this path...
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
