Good suggestion by Sunny. Wow, it could range from a normal interview to one of those quirky new agey kinds. Just be who you are and know you are good at what you do and if it works out..Hey that's all the better.
You need to know:
What type of benefits they offer
How many vacation/sick days are there
What annual raises look like
Hours/time of day that will be required of you
what is their goal for the job you are applying for
are you replacing someone or is this a new company position
if this is a replacement for someone can you find out why?
write more if I can think of anything else.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
oooh I could spit fire right now. D got home from tennis today at 7pm and when I asked what she had for lunch she said "nothing". I called xh and asked him what she had because sometimes she forgets (eye rolling) things like that. He said she didn't eat lunch! WTF? I so wanted to get angry at him but instead I said "H please remember that she has a snack in school around 11:30 so she has to have lunch after we pick her up at 2. Today she hasn't had anything in her belly since midday" He said "ok". Just last week I would have went on and on about her needing to have lunch and how could he be so irresponsible etc. but for some reason I was able to stay in the moment and tell him clearly what was expected without any blame. I'm still rotted over this but at least I can honestly say he doesn't know how upset I was/am.
I swear how could he forget to give her lunch or not make time for it? He said "she did her homework, then she was in the pool and then she had tennis" I was thinking "so and you can go 7 hours without eating?? She's 6 so she needs to eat". Can't he get his head out of his A$$ or should I say mobile and remember to feed the child!!!
I'm venting here and this may seem trival to some but it's things like this that tick me off sometimes. To top it all off when SIL dropped her off she was eating a Jolly Rancher stick...
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Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
OK, I'll say this carefully! Let's just say that I can see how it could happen! Doesn't make it right, but....
So, you did the right thing. You made it clear why it can't happen again, and you didn't go into long lecture mode! See how that works out. I think you did well!
Sounds like you did GREAT. I bet your XH is scratching his head wondering what was so different about that conversation. Sorry your D didn't get lunch but kids are so resilient! My guess is your XH got the point and will think next time.
Well done!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
I just want to let you know that after I watched part of the Secret last night, I felt SOOO much better, and tried to put all of my energy into positive thinking and feeling. One hour after I closed my laptop I got the first positive news from my H, via email, that I've had in the past 3 months. It's still not all the way there, but a LOT closer than before. Not trying to hijack the thread, just saying I'm starting to be a believer...
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Hi, yes it can happen and will again just because she's a kid and those things happen. I knew it would do no good to nag him about it. Saying something once in a controlled way is much better than saying it 10 times in a nagging way.
ITH, I'm glad that you are feeling more positive about your sitch. Hijacking with good news is fun...
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
