I am glad you see positives. Sometimes, I can't see that. He consistently goes back and forth with his feelings. But when we are calm, he is bright and cheerful with me. When we are angry though... I am trying to stick with the mantra of not listening to his words too much.
I am 33 and H is 32. I have read DR a few months ago, but should read it again. I am reading DB right now. I have thought about possible coaching. I am changing my approach in dealing with him. Talking about our relationship gets us nowhere.
Right now, we are focusing on his move closer and selling our house. I believe these to be good things. Just wondering how our distance will get us through this right now.
