Hi JCJ, Thanks for stopping by. I will have to read a bit of your sitch this weekend.
Yes, I think I am at a good place right now .... really detaching has gotten me there. It has been a really tough road for me. The worst was last winter, before finding this place. It has given me a lot of strength. Definately, has taught me not to take the advise of family & friends & that I need to find my own path and be happy to wherever it takes me.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I think we just haven't been on here at the same time. Last week you were getting such good advise, I just read it all & absorbed it. I didn't feel I had any advise for you.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
I feel like I should be called "MrMelancholy" the past two days. Today I am just exhausted. need some sleep and a fun weekend.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Well, you have had a whirlwind week. Can't say I'm exhausted - but been very busy & it will only get worse. Ths time of year is crunch time for me - until the cold sets in. Always tons of stuff to do. And ...... and Halloween is coming .......
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
You are just hard to get talking, maybe you are just shy or maybe you don't want to get hurt by talking about yourself. Maybe you view as prideful to to talk about yourself. You tell me.
Well, quoting will have to wait, until I find more time.
HHmmm ..... well actually I am shy and a bit reserved and a bit of a loner. Don't throw a pity party for me being a loner. That's just who I am & am comfortable with. I have some great conversations with myself & I mostly agree with my own bad self too
In coaching terms - I'm a sidelines girl - I don't need to be part of the action all the time. Which I suppose is not always good. Well, enough for tonight - I suppose I didn't really answer your question - just a side step. Hope you have a good nite.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
I hope your having a good weekend cause if not I am going to think you are hiding again.
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I have some great conversations with myself & I mostly agree with my own bad self too
Maybe it would be nice if you shared those thoughts with the rest of the world. Maybe all us bad selfs would be interested too. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Hey Coach, No I'm not hiding - just been very busy. Yesterday, went to a few stores & to get a bag of cement to start patching my front steps. Started some patching as well. Also been window shopping on ebay, & watch The Scarlet Pimpernel last night. Today, more cement patching, put up a fence gate door w/my sister & went to a friends sons b'day party. Came home changed into my work clothes & then some cool new guy in the neighborhood stopped by to try & sell my sister & I some photos. (Man, I looked like hell & normally do working on my house). We each ended up chatting w/him & bought a photo. The guy even asked for my phone number!! So I gave it to him. Then I did more patching of steps, took the dogs for a walk & relaxed.
I know an exciting weekend!! Not....!
Strange but last weekend when I went out to a club & met my friends friend there (guess he's kinda my friend too now) & then today chatting w/this other guy ...... I realized something. I am dying for quality time & good conversation face to face from the opposite sex. Just wish my H would realize that! Maybe it will be something I will bring up sometime.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
Busy is good. True test of beauty is if you still look good with no make-up, dirt on your face, sweaty and not dressed up. He asked for your number so it's a good thing. I understand about the talking tp someone else besides your buds. I'm big on connecting with people, I think you do that by spending time with them and doing things together. You need to bring to up with H. So keep sharing your thoughts, inquiring minds want to know. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
