Hi JCJ, Thanks for stopping by. I will have to read a bit of your sitch this weekend.

Yes, I think I am at a good place right now .... really detaching has gotten me there. It has been a really tough road for me. The worst was last winter, before finding this place. It has given me a lot of strength. Definately, has taught me not to take the advise of family & friends & that I need to find my own path and be happy to wherever it takes me.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)