H tells D15 that he wants to talk to her and says you know Daddy has not been happy and I asked your mother for a Divorce??? (he was only supposed to tell her he was moving out) She looked stunned, then he caught himself and said well what I am going to do is move out and see what happens. Then he had the grace to say well this is something that your mother does not want. So I tell her, we will stay in the house and we will not move back to CT because I know you want to finish school here and Mommy is making that concession because she knows how well you are doing here. I also said You know Daddy needs to work on himself to be happy and Mommy will work on herself to keep taking care of our girls. But I want you to know this is not my decision and for now I stand by my marriage no matter what Daddy feels. D15 asks to go to her room. She is now on the phone with her friends crying. So H goes to call our other D28 in CT. He says he is going to call her on the cell phone, I look outside and he is gone with his car. So I have no idea what she is telling him or him telling her. I will be sooo mad if he has the NERVE to call the OW tonight to let her know that he finally told the kids. I want him to have NO comfort tonight. When D15 went to her room he says I know she is crying, well what did you expect? Then he whines "I am not happy, and I turn to him and say do you know how ridicoulus you sound? Look at our daughter's face she is wounded" This is your decision, you don't have cancer or something you can't help -- this is about no one but you. It is a selfish decision", so he says Now I am the bad guy. Forget DB tonight I am too upset, mad. and sad. I am waiting to go into D's room and talk. She will NEVER look at him the same. I see it in her eyes. She is such a good kid, always filled with joy, excitement and happiness -- he is taking that away from her because he is not happy. I HATE MLC
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
