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Re: I have a dream LolaL #1603829 09/25/08 09:58 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ V Virtually_Handsome Member
Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	((((((Lola)))))) He is running a serious brain cell deficit! Hang in there!

Re: I have a dream Virtually_Handsome #1603838 09/25/08 10:12 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	((((((Lola)))))) Well...he is a guy $;\)$ It sounds to me more like a pull back from him - that he wants to make sure you aren't going to try and place any demands/expectations on him. So in that respect, I think you handled it well. Vent away. And you should join me for that wine and bubble bath! $;\)$ Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: I have a dream MichelleLT #1603846 09/25/08 10:19 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	I'm in!!! It probably was. But I mean, seriously...what did he think I was going to do? I told him I hated asking for rides from him. I remained calm on the phone, but did tell him that I hated being dependent on someone else. I am so mad right now I can't even think! Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: I have a dream LolaL #1603958 09/26/08 12:43 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela J JenInVen Member
JenInVen Member J Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela	Quote: And you should join me for that wine and bubble bath! I'll wait to see what Jeff has to say about that comment $\:\)$ Lola...maybe now might be a good time to go for a walk?? It may help you relax and take your mind off your DAM for a while. Last edited by JenInVen; 09/26/08 12:44 AM. Jen The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present The end of the DB road

Re: I have a dream JenInVen #1603974 09/26/08 01:14 AM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	Originally Posted By: JenInVen I'll wait to see what Jeff has to say about that comment $\:\)$ I'm counting on it! Lol Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

Re: I have a dream MichelleLT #1604065 09/26/08 03:05 AM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ V Virtually_Handsome Member
Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	Originally Posted By: MichelleLT Originally Posted By: JenInVen I'll wait to see what Jeff has to say about that comment $\:\)$ I'm counting on it! Lol Yes.

Re: I have a dream Virtually_Handsome #1604333 09/26/08 01:24 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Well you know I do bath naked... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: I have a dream LolaL #1604366 09/26/08 01:47 PM
Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,410 I istherehope Member
istherehope Member I Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,410	(((Lola))) Sorry about that. You DO know they have multiple personalities, right? This was just the bad one coming through...sounded like you handled it really well though! Breathe and have some wine :)--I guess it's too early for that there? ITH Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!

Re: I have a dream istherehope #1604450 09/26/08 02:34 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	It is never too early for wine. Of course, I don't think my boss would appreciate me drinking on the job!!! Actually, it's okay. I realized H was actually right, the payment was high, so I called the attorney. Turns our that he can reduce the payments down about another $200 by extending it to a five year Chapter 13 plan vs. a 4 year. I was much more comfortable with that. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: I have a dream LolaL #1604458 09/26/08 02:37 PM
Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 835 NJ S Separated Member
Separated Member S Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 835 NJ	Yeaaay!!! Wine in the morning!! LoL Well Lola TGIF!!! I am so glad this situation as it keeps bending and unwinding continues to have positives for you. I hope you have your car back soon!!! M:28 H:29 M:1 T:11 Sep:5/1/08 1st 2nd

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