Get yourself another IC and quick! You need to do a bit of research and find one that is both (1) pro-marriage, and (2) solutions-based. If not #2, then #1 at the very least!
Resist the temptation of hearing/relying on second-hand news, bro. False hopes set you up for a big time fall. Again, this is between you and your W...no one else. Period.
It's tempting to grasp onto any kind of shallow-rooted shrub when it appears you're sinking into this quicksand sitch, but what you hold on to will just uproot itself. You'll find yourself sinking faster and deeper because of all the unnecessary struggling.
Calm yourself...be still...
- Me = 32 y/o - WAW = 32 y/o - M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs - No kids - Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08
