Yes you are. I forgot! I have just spent the last year and a half with some of the best (I think) nurses in the world. Oncology nurses Rock!
Then fast forward to the so called "medical professional" (student nurse & X family friend) that started the EA with my H - trying to help him "understand" my illness. Umm, sure. My head was still bald - give me a breaki! What a wack job.
By the way, how is your new job going? I know that you have had a rough time, and I admire your strenght and your humor.
You are quite right that somebody has to be the adult. But don't forget you can give yourself permission for time off once in a while.
I can tell that your D will grow up to be an amazing young woman, despite what pain your H may be causing, and maybe because of it.
Hope that you have a peaceful evening.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.