Please help me to not give up............

[grant]

In truth Pup, I think it's a bit of both.

I understand that this is pretty much "script" for WAS. But I'm not sure that means that there isn't any truth in it for them.

I believe her, because I think she DOES has justifications for ending the M, but I also know that her R with OM whether platonic or more, has had some sort of effect on how we now interact.

How can I change that without instigating proceedings???


There have been baby steps though. I must be careful not to ignore little signs of warmth or gestures.
Things have changed a bit.......

Damn.......

You got me thinking about assertion and self-respect again........
But I've only been DBing properly for about 2 months.

I'm sick of this rollercoaster, sick of being torn, and not REALLY knowing what might be for the best. I'm starting to sound impatient.

I just don't want to fail.