For her, she had a very strong EA that ended but she's still very frigid to my touch even though we get along great otherwise.
Do I just let her be the one to intiate something or do I lightly initiate 'caring' touches like patting her arm?
I know for me... I need to be emotionally connected to want physical touch. I don' t think that is uncommon for most women.
For me it has to do with trust... If I can't trust you with my emotions, why would I trust you with my body??
The better understood I am, the closer I feel to H, the more likely it is I am to initiate or allow physical contact.
I think for men it is the reverse... the more physical contact they have the closer they feel to their W. and the more likely they are to listen & understand them.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.