The truth is, as I understand it, she ended the M because of all that has happened before, and not because of an all consuming EA with this man.
Sorry, but I cry "fogged-out bullchit" on that one, Grant. "As I understand it"?????
Do you REALLY agree with that, or do you think that maybe she has just CONVINCED herself of this, to justify her behavior? (Hint: don't let the fact that 95% of all waywards say this influence you one way or another.)