My W called me today asking about how much money she owed on some bills. Talked for a little bit about that and having D11 come over after school because she a case plan meeting about SD16. A few things about car ins, ect.
She called again a little later because she had forgotten about some bills. I asked what time she was going to be done with the meeting. She said she was not sure and asked if I had plans. I said I had dinner plans later tonight. She asked if it was a date. I told her no, just some friends. She asked who and I told her just friends.
Then she started getting irritated. She said she was honest with me and why could I not be honest with her. That she was the only one being honest. I told her sorry you feel that way. I asked if she wanted me to get D11 something to eat. She said don't bother she would just have D11 go to MIL. That why would I just get D!! something to eat and not eat with her, it made no sense.(?) I said it was not a problem and I would go after she picked up D11.
She then asked if I had talked to a L yet. I said I have an appointment next week. She asked if I had been served yet. I told her not yet. (the paperwork is still at the house) I asked if there was anything else. She said no and I told her I would talk to her later. She said ok and sounded like she was a little taken back.
The last part I am sure was just to see what kind of reaction she could get out of me. I gave her the only one I give her now, calm and non-chalant about things.
Apparently the school never gave D11 the message and she took the bus to MIL's. I asked if she wanted me to get her and she said no she would just stay there and call my W to tell her where she was at. To bad I canceled my plans for tonight.
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