WAW Won't Communicate At All

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It's good that you got a lawyer, but don't rely on him/her to increase your chances of saving your M. Again, do not use anyone else to assist in your DB'ing efforts even if it's to pass messages/communicate. If your wife doesn't want to hear it from you, she certainly doesn't want to hear anything from your lawyer! At the end of the day, it's their job to protect you from harm if your marriage dissolves; they're not there to help save it. In other words, don't use a fork to drink soup.

You can use your lawyer to delay the D proceedings to buy you a bit more time(e.g. waiting the last possible moment to file a response, etc.). Know your rights and how D works in your state.