Ima, you are doing really, really good. Friendship is where it starts. When a relationship (one that replaces the marriage) loses its luster, the old relationship (marriage) can look more desirable. But it will take time.

Keep on keeping on, my friend.

(These opinions are not necessarily those of management. Actual mileage may vary.)

Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God