Originally Posted By: runningoutoftime
In some ways it's easier for the WAS, we aren't left with that regret.


ROT,

I am a bit confused with what you wrote......

I personally think the WAS has a MUCH easier time initially...

WASs are off having a grand old time doing whatever...........

I think when reality sets in for WAS two to five years later...........

WASs really have regrets..........

It may not even be the WASs wish their M had worked.......

I think the WASs regret at least not trying.................

The LBS has a hellacious time at first.........

I gets easier little by little for LBS.....

The LBS eventually realizes he or she did everything they could....

The LBS eventually lets go....

The WASs, I believe, will have that lingering regret.... Wondering "what if".................

RMG

"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"