Yes DQ, I've read through and there are some similarities. And I should clarify that this isn't his way of getting details. I confessed to about 95 percent with details nine months ago and the other five percent in July. This was not for details. It was for punishment and I can see that now. But what if I can just take the punishment and it will be over soon and everything will work out? We are not in MC. We were but it wasn't helping H and he refuses to go. I'm in IC and my H is considering IC. Thank you for everything you all have said.