I have struggled with the time factor myself. I felt like we were back on track. Heck, we were talking about moving back in together. Then I found OW#2 hiding and I filed days later, a month after that it was final. I have only seen him a couple of times since then. Just seems like it went fast, but I did what I had to do.
As far as his stuff in the garage...if there was a date set in the D papers and he hasn't gotten it, then I would say it is yours. If you want to be nice you could tell him he has until a certain date to get the remaining things or they will be donated to good will. You really need to break this final tie with him to be able to move on.
Try not to think about that day in May. I have the same problem...two dates, the date I found out he was living with OW#1 (worst night of my life), and the date that I found OW#2 hiding in his apartment. Sometimes I go over what happened in my mind and it literally makes me sick. I have just learned to immidiately do something to take my mind off of it. It does me no good to dwell on it.
Hang in there sweetie.
Are you still keeping busy? Still seeing the guy from HS??
