I somewhat guessed that you might see an improvement in her attitude. That eBook "Women's Infidelity" predicts that behavior as the LBS finally moves toward the big D. It explains this as forcing her out of limbo: which you have been in for quite some time. If you haven't read that book, you should. It is quite the eye opener.
I am glad you seem so positive and upbeat. Your PMA is an example for us all. Take care and stay positive!
--Chris
Me: 40 She: 31 S: 5 D: 3 Married: 8 years (05 DEC 99) Blow-up: 02 JUN 07 Piecing (More like Ostriching): 22 FEB 08