Thanks. The MC thinks she is showing signs of ambivilance toward deciding to leave and is having second thoughts. I spoke to one of her coworkers who related a brief conversation they had regarding the health of the M (when others were seeing the stress she was under) and W made the comment "I guess I have his attention now."
Well, she certainly has it. The changes I have made were a long time in coming and necessary. Perhaps it is not too late, but the affair still has been a total violation of the intimacy and trust and I refuse to take ownership of it. Through her years of depression and withdrawl, never once did I think of straying it or ending the M. The MC thinks she may want her cake and eat it too, but that is not something with which I can live. She must admit to her transgression and then we can move forward to the next phase of the R (not necessarilly D).
