Know what else? I am still struggling with the time factor. I found out about the affair in January and was divorced by July. I think I moved too fast. But I keep reminding myself that the affair itself wasn't the reason why I divorced. The reason was because he wouldn't leave the house and that was the only way to get him out...divorce. Most couples have a time of seperation before the divorce and I never had that. He never physically left. And so I had no real choice in the matter... I know all of this, but why do I feel like I moved too fast?
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
