Hi AG - thanks, I know you aren't ignoring my responses. And no, it isn't really possible to avoid XW, but we only encounter each other rarely.
Thanks cookie. I wasn't sure about sending the email or not, but I felt I needed to express myself.
My XW sent back a reply saying she's sorry she'd become such a monster in my mind. She says she doesn't want to forget our life together and doesn't understand why I would think that she wanted to erase me from her life and memory. She says she still cares about me and very much wants to be friends, but her impression from the post-courtroom conversation was that I didn't want that. She said she wants to give me the space I need and hopes that friendship falls within that space - she'll wait for me to contact her when I'm ready. She ended saying there were many more things to respond to in my email but she didn't think I wanted to hear it.
Hmmm - is it just me or am I being portrayed as the bad guy here? Didn't RMG suggest earlier that this would be the case? She caused me the worst pain I've ever felt and told a judge that she was absolutely sure we were completely incompatible, but she doesn't understand why I don't want to be friends? After the cheating and lying and refusing to talk and being outright cruel, she is sorry that I turn her into a monster?
I don't know. Maybe it's just me but I feel justified in shutting her out of my life. This is what she wanted, right?
