Thanks S&S. I am just scared right now. Once I know what is going on...regardless of the outcome, I think it will be better. The fear of the unknown is the worst. Remember when you didn't know for sure if your spouse was cheating on you? When I found out the truth, even though it was not a good outcome, I felt so much better. I hope this is the same way. Although I really hope that the bumps are nothing.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08