do you think he wanted to know details of exactly what happened and this was his way to getting those questions answered? I know that some spouses just want to know the details of what was said, what was done, etc etc. If he wants to do this again, I think you really need to talk to him about being open and honest about the affair outside of the bedroom, but that you would like to make new memories in your ML with your husband that are seperate from the OM. And maybe have some roleplaying in mind that is more appropriate for both of you.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
