Okay I got a question for the WAW's

A big issue for everyone here seems to be 'physical touch'. When a WAW seems to have made up her mind about leaving, a switch seems to go on that makes any physical touch from their significant other seem like touching a hot stove.

My wife is like that. She had never been really the physically affectionate type, but now it's like if I just try hugging her goodbye (very platonically), she ducks her head down and can't even look at me. It's like hugging a lump of clay.

For her, she had a very strong EA that ended but she's still very frigid to my touch even though we get along great otherwise.

Do I just let her be the one to intiate something or do I lightly initiate 'caring' touches like patting her arm?


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Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
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