All I can say is wow. Jeff you do sound like a different person from early this summer. She is feeling guilty. My xh is feeling that as well. She doesn't want to fix the marriage, she just wants to feel bad about everything.

So things have been going on since 2005? I am a little confused about that.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08