I am glad he called you on it. You cannot sit around and mope. The occasional pity party is fine--I have been a little down today myself. It is rainy, and dreary and cold. All I could seem to think about was how, in the past, on days like this when H was home, we would spend the day together--laying in bed or on the sofa, doing nothing. The kids would do their own thing with watching movies, etc. It was time for us to just BE--nothing important needed to be done, etc.
There are always going to be times that the old stuff creeps back in. The important thing is to beat it back. Look at how far you have come in such a short time!
SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
