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The million dollar question. Do they allow you to talk to each other on that site without knowing each other's real names? Like, he would not know your real name but you certainly know his name.

I think for him it is a game--thrill of the chase, am I still good looking, do the women fall for me, etc etc...............and wants you to be jealous as he tells you about it.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
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I wonder if he does want me to be jealous. No, you cant talk on most sites unless you pay for it...and he dont have no money!

And good looking? lol, not by the pics he picked to put up! sorry, but you really start to see their ugly side when they leave and treat you the way they do.


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"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
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Yes, I think he wants to make you very jealous.

Some of the things they do just make you shake your head in amazement.


The Bomb: 08/05
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H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
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i think we could make a movie about mlc=some of it funny and a lot of it sad.


The Bomb: 08/05
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H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
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Yes, I think a movie would be good!

Last night he felt the need to tell me he got an email from a girl and he was emailing her back.

I told him some thing i could really go the rest of my life without knowing, and told him he was crossing some boundaries there.

He said "Im sorry, I know"

I heard some interesting info on the exOW yesterday.

Found out she broke up another marriage last summer. She had the nerve to call the mans wife and tell her that she needed to step back that her H was in love with her and they were moving in together. This poor man's wife didnt even know they were having an affair.

Now, I know I dont like her at all! She is a homewrecker for sure. She has issues and I cant believe my H still wants to be with her.

Oh, and I dont know if I said this, but my H's screen name on his personals is "justfindingmyway". :YOur right, he is a lost soul.


Kissak

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Folks, the Lord is good and is answering prayers everyday!!

Ok, I know this doesnt change a thing, but listen to what happened today.

I invited my H to a church fellowship dinner. All I did was send him a text saying if he was hungry later, we were eating at church and he was invited. Now, I did this to be nice and I felt like it was worth a try because you never know.

Well, lo and behold after church during the dinner, the door opens and I had to look twice! I know everyone in my small church was wondering what on earth was going on....but he was dressed nicely and my kids were so happy to see him there!

He sat down and ate with us. The Pastor said he was glad to see him and had been praying just this morning for him!

I found out that he had went to church with his stepmom this morning and then decided to come eat with us.

HE WENT TO CHURCH....I praise GOd that he went to church and then I know without a doubt it took ALOT for him to walk through my church doors. I do mean ALOT people. It took more than you will ever know. I did thank him for coming and when he was leaving I told him that I was glad he came and that I knew it took alot for him to come there. He smiled and agreed with me on that one for sure!

Im just so thankful that he came. I am even more thankful that he went to a church this morning. I pray and hope that he heard a message that God intended on him hearing today.

Im giving God all the glory today.

I know it doesnt change anything, but I feel good that he at least went to church. Something he hasnt done in a right good while.


Kissak

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This is a wonderful praise report.

You have every right to feel excited about this.


The Bomb: 08/05
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H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
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Thank You MWG

It is a blessing.

And I am very excited that it happened.

I thank God for all his blessings and this is just one of many.


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Kissak,

Before the bomb, my H was a dyed-in-the-wool atheist. Now he believes in God, although he's a little sketchy on the specifics yet.

God is always working behind the scenes, even when it doesn't seem like it.

Bless!

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Interesting, all. Kissak, I hope this is a good sign for you.


M: 16 years
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