Looks like I need to sit back for now then. One other thing I failed to mention in my initial sitrep is that I met with an attorney as a response to her "papers" and we going to contact her lawyer to let him know that I had been going to counseling and that I didn't want to get divorced, etc. He was also going to find out if there was a chance to reconcile. Her attorney said that he didn't know either way and that he would send her a letter to see what she thought. that was approximately a week ago. I haven't heard anything either way. Just thought I'd add that in.