OW thinks he may be trying to get back to the way things were in the begining so that he can pretend nothing ever happened and so he doesn't have to work through all of this. She might have a point.
Just wondering...do you not have enough going on you that you still feel the need to seek feedback regarding YOUR husband from someone that's no better than a common two-bit whore?
She is not your friend and aside from dropping you a line if he initiates ANY contact, she needs to be treated like what she is: the dirt on the bottom of your shoes.
Listen, one thing that will paralyze the whole process of DBing is overanalysis. If you add OTHER people's analysis of your situation to all the analysis you provide for yourself, you're just going to end up with a whole lot of information and not one clue wtf to do with it.
In short, you have the knowledge but only time and patience are going to promote true wisdom.
