"So are you saying that I should NOT send her any cards or letters at all?"
That's exactly what I'm saying. After all the phone conversations, emails, and letters, what more do you have to say that haven't been said already? Better question - what more is there to say that your wife will be receptive to? Sounds to me all your correspondences haven't gotten you and your wife closer together. In fact, it's clear to a 3rd party observer that she's farther away than ever before. Didn't Einstein state that "insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results each time"?
Oftentimes us males are predisposed to apply solutions. And when those solutions don't work, we'll keep applying the same solutions but with more intensity. As Michele says in her books, "if at first you don't succeed, try, try again" is the absolute worst adage to apply when you're trying to save your marriage.
You need to try something different...something that'll get her attention and pique her curiosity.
Read Divorce Remedy. Pick up a copy at Barns & Noble or Borders if there's one nearby. That should be your first goal this weekend.
- Me = 32 y/o - WAW = 32 y/o - M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs - No kids - Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08
