Alicia I've said for a while that our sitches have a similarity. After my H and I reconciled after our first split my H kept telling me it was me who wasn't trying hard enough, me who couldn't forgive (he was right on that one) etc etc. He made me feel like a bad person (just as your H is doing). After he left this time and while he was still prepared to talk to me he admitted that he had done all those things b/c he wanted me to leave so that he wasn't seen to be the bad person! The rest is history. I hope I'm wrong on this one.
Take care.
OMG~
yeah this would make sense.... he gets to be let off the hook when I give in and tell him yeah you are right I am no good and so I will leave. He said to me awhile ago he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. ? And he loves me very much?! WTF??????????????????
I dont call this living. And yet here I am .. Does God still want for me to stand? Alicia
