Thank you so much, I hope you have a nice day also. It is a blessing that my parents support me so much. I don't know if they would support me in standing for my M as they are so upset with exH. But they are wonderful & I enjoy being around them.
YR, I've been wondering where you have been. I hope you are doing well!!
Glam, you are right, I can't imagine this R working for my H either. I'm trying my best to take it one day at a time. I do feel more at peace tonight. By the way, I heard his voice today & wanted to talk to him so bad but I didn't. Here is what happened, my exSIL told me that the OW called my exH's brother to let him know my ex had gotten another cell phone number for work. Not sure why my ex didn't call but anyway she gave it to my exBIL & said that the other number would not work anymore. That meant that if I had to contact him (which I don't plan to) but if I did I wouldn't have anything but that email address that they share, well I do have another email but ex doesn't know I have it. I thought today that I would block my number & call the old cell phone number, since it was a work phone that it might give out another number, well my ex answered! I didn't say anything but it was so nice to here his voice. I could tell he was with someone b/c it sounded like he was putting on a front, I can always tell when he is with someone important or trying to impress someone. He just made the comment to that other person "I hate it when that happens" meaning someone calling & not saying anything, but knowing him so well I could tell by the tone of his voice his actions. I wanted so bad to talk to him but I knew that I couldn't, it just seemed almost like I was calling him like I normally would in the middle of the day. I sure miss him but I don't think it's over, I'm trying not to think that way but there is something that just won't let me give up right now.
I would encourage you to read today's Charlyne newsletter which is posted on her website.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
NLT interesting. I am sure that must have been hard not to say something. One day NLT you might want to call him out of the blue and see how he is doing. Not now! He is still far gone, but time has a way of healing the hurts.
Your h may find himself NO longer mad at you and your voice might just be a pleasant suprise.
Hugs! You were strong NLT not to say anything. I probably would have broke down in tears.
Hang in there!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Thank you for stopping by my thread. I hope you have a nice day also. I've been cross stitching & still working some on my house. I fixed another window today! I'm getting pretty good at this, I wish my ex could see what all I've done. I think he would be impressed.
