Moving her from Newbees

[Clayton]

Let's suppose that she doesn't realize she broke your heart (do I laugh now or later?). Wouldn't that mean she doesn't feel pressured or pursued which makes her a bit more amiable and easier to DB? OMG, she pretty much invited you on a date within the next couple of days!

I'm sure she realizes she broke my heart. I told her when she first left....and when we had our last conversation about the seperation (2 mths ago).

Since then we have been going out about once a week for the last 8 weeks. The first few outings were a little tense, both of us trying to be as possitive/ happy as possible. We have not had any conversations about our situation for at least 2 mths. I'm just trying to be as happy, friendly, positive as possible. I don't really have to try any more because I am.

I'm going to try to get her to come to the house more often for either dinner or breakfast instead of going out. Hopefully that way she will slowly become more comfortable being in our old environment again.

I really like to cook....so I can probably intice her to come over when I cook something special. I told her I was planning on bbq lamb one night this week...so she replied saying that she will definetly be calling.

Lately..whenever I offer her to join me for something (normally associated with food or drinks), she has alway said yes. I am only offering about once a week at this point and the meetings have always gone very well.

I have no idea how long this will go on before we need to have some sort of conversation about US. Hopefully she will bring it up. I am off on a month long vacation for all of November. We will not have any commucication during that period. The longest we have been out of communication so far (either e-mail or face to face) has been about 5 days. A month is going to be a long time. Maybe she will come to some sort of realization while I'm away climbing mountains.