Seems like it's usually at this point that real progress is made...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Just stopping by to say hey and that I'm so happy that you are doing so well and get your car back.
Definitely keep up the walking. I wish I could do that sometimes but the closest stores to me are over a mile each way and there are no sidewalks here so I would actually have to walk much further because our trails go winding through the woods. A little scary by myself too when the sun sets so early now.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I bet you calfs look even more super when you wear your spiky heels now I walk everywhere and I don't mind at all...it does relieve stress and it gives you something to do if you're feeling a bit bored.
And I just ordered sexy FMP's...hehe
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I actually find that the walking is a great stress reliever. Most of the stores in my area are within walking distance, so I am definitely going to keep it up. I sleep better at night, and it is therapeutic. It will also go better once I get an mp3 player~!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
H called last night. The pump on the pool looks like it is not working, which is something I knew. I offered to help if he could price it when I get my school check, which has FINALLY been cut!!!
Last night, all he kept saying was I don't know what to do (talking in terms of affording everything he needs to afford). I don't know what to do, how to do it, blah blah. Stuff I said to him a long time ago, and that is when we were not in a good place.
I am thinking that he is kind of mulling something over in his brain about how to resolve our issues, but I am not counting on it. It is interesting, though. I am not making any suggestions. I don't know if he is waiting to see if I will suggest that I move back into the house so that we can actually afford our lives, but I am not going to do that. This time it will hve to come from him.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Sounds like things are starting to fall into place...I know we don't want to read too much into what the WAH is thinking, but still you do know him better than anyone else, and if you have a gut feeling, you're probably right!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
I just take it day by day. I figure it this way, I am not going to push the button by any means. I still analyze way too much, but I have also gotten better about that...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
You and me both! It is amazing to me that in a few short months things have come so far!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
There are times when H pisses me off so much that I just want to scream. I need to vent right now before I scream.
So the lawyer's office finally got back to me. Getting the car back is going to almost double the payment. Fine, I will deal with that. But this jerk goes on to say I hope you can handle that because I will not be able to help.
Well duh. It's my car. I told him I would handle it. But the thing I don't get is doesn't he understand THAT I LOSE EVERYTHING??? Geez. I lost my husband. I lost my home. I lost my security. I lost my car. I don't give a [censored] about the extra payment.
I just want to beat the sh1t out of him. He started saying you can get a car for 1000-2000 and not pay anything. Oh yeah? Where the he11 am I supposed to get that? DAM. Stupid. Everytime I think we are getting closer, he loses some brain cells and reverts back to an idiot.
I am so ticked off right now.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I walk everywhere and I don't mind at all...it does relieve stress and it gives you something to do if you're feeling a bit bored. 