I'm scared because in a way my life HAS to revolve around him while we're in Ireland and we have this fixed deadline of when our lease is up. After that I'd literally have to follow him if he didn't want to be with me anymore...
However I do understand what you're saying. I do have some time in the interim to try and make things right with myself. Did your H say those kinds of things that mine is saying, about not wanting to be married and you being like a jailor?
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!