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[Thanks Coach & Jen for all you encouragement & advise. Both of you were right on target! /quote]

School of Hard Knocks

[quote]Strange that she admitted, that I have been a tough case.

IMO, it's because you are not a typical female, one of the reasons I like you, you are pretty direct when you talk. You are just hard to get talking, maybe you are just shy or maybe you don't want to get hurt by talking about yourself. Maybe you view as prideful to to talk about yourself. You tell me.
One thing I have learned is to open up about what's going on in my head, heart and my world. That's why I go out of my way to try and talk with different women here, I hope it makes me a better friend, man, Dad and husband. I still talk to the guys it's just different.
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what I need to do is build on the friendship, be a bit flirty, have happy & positive energy when I'm around him, ask him for help with things. Also I'm supposed to let him make the next move.


You can do all that easy enough. Waiting for him will probably drive you nuts though.


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Still the D question & what he will decide hangs over my head. Yet, I don't think that frightens me as much as it used to.


I believe you but why would you say it doesn't frighten you as much now?
You're doing great. You have come a long way from a couple of months ago.
Cheers


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.