I feel your pain and yes, we all have gone thru this and still go thru it.
Sure, it is all fun for H because he gets to bring the kids back to their home. Sometimes I would love to say that I am moving out and see what H would do. Of course I would never do that because I would feel guilty.
My kids have never been to his dive, ever! They have never been invited either. H keeps all of us as far away from ow and the dive as possible. I suppose this is good BUT I know how all of this eats at you.
Come here and vent anytime. I know it hurts and it angers the heck out of you.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19