Hi Lanzo,
Could the way she's been acting lately be a result of the stress of living in a house that's in upheaval? Sometimes I lash out at things that are petty when I'm feeling particularly stressed. If there's alot of stress, I don't have the energy to stop and think before blurting out something that I wish I hadn't said. Not a good trait, but I've been working on it.

I would suggest doing something particularly nice for your w to show her you love her and will continue to love her, even if the alien swoops in every now and then.


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08