Did you get the same mean speeches as I did? I'm rereading the "MLC guide for dummies" link right now and it's pretty funny. Most of the things H is saying fit it, things like the following:
Chapter 5
History Revision
It is very important that you revise the life you have lead with your spouse. You must use words like: Always, Ever, Never and All of the Time. Always precede the statement with the terms: you, I, and we. As in "you always nag me" "I never ever (double bonus here) get to do what I want" and "We have to do what you want all of the time". This will help to make your spouse feel like the way you are behaving is all their fault, and can cause them to feel even worse about themselves than they already did!!
Funniest thing in my H's IM from yesterday was when he talked about not being able to live with me, and he repeated it 3 times like a little kid:
"I cannot, I cannot, I cannot".
So right now finding it humorous. Not sure how long this will last!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
