Perhaps this is what was meant to be all along, and your XW did you a favor. It may not have been the nicest way to do it, but this was suppose to happen. This third wife is the one you were meant to be with.
ROT,
I am not worrying about what exW is doing...... I am really focused on what is going on in my life and M............
Did she do me a favor? I really think she did me the biggest favor ever......
exW was simply not a motivated, positive person.... Her big thing was holding on to her Federal job and doing as little work there as possible.... Plus, she was just not supportive of me in my career......... I really think she had fear that as I climbed the ladder, I would find I require a "better" woman....
Anyways, my whole point is I think she will "wake up" someday.....
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
