God give me the patience and the strength...7

[glamgirl]

TOH I wouldn't call your h about the little stuff. I am sure you do it to keep some kind of connection going. I wouldn't bother. He wants to be left alone, everytime you call him it's like he has to start that process all over again.

It's kind of like what does she want now. Can't she just leave me alone. That is what runs around in their heads. You are not giving him the space and breathing room to miss you or to know what he gave up.

Let him do all the calling, but my guess is you will always find some reason to call him.

All MLC's are different and you can't put a timeline on it, but you sure can prolong it by meddling.