The timeline is different for everyone but they say go back one year from the time you find out about the A or something to that nature.

Yes, these men are gone about 2+ years - some less, some longer.

Mine has been gone over two years now.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19