Hoosier,

Unfair? Hell yes.

Will she get over it, yes.

She's trying to cling to her dad because she feels she's losing him. It's natural. She's doing what we all do when we think we're losing someone: get clingy and needy. And we all do backflips when the person who has withdrawn themselves from us throws us a few crumbs of affection.

She's growing up in a solid parochial school environment. She knows her dad is wrong. But, perhaps, sub-conciously, she thinks she had something to do with it and wants to win his affection.

Regarding your other post. I don't know what to say except learn what you can from this. Think hard.

What have I, Theoden, learned?

I took my spouse for granted.

I believed that our vows alone were sufficient to keep us married -- they are not.

I lost myself. Wasn't on my game regarding life-goals, career, etc. I was sleepwalking through life.

I was a nice guy. But way too nice. Not passionate or open-hearted.

I never really expressed my feelings to people. I merely negotiated to avoid conflict and get what I wanted. But no one ever really knew me.

--Theoden