thank you - I will definitely reconsider... especially as my situation and his A is still so new he won't see it with reason as you mentioned ... he will only think it is my way of controlling him or trying to get him to do something he doesn't want to do.

so frustrating.... waiting and hoping that he'll hit "rock bottom" or see the "light" sooner than later...

I can only control me and choose to make changes in me.. I'm working on" letting go" but boy is it hard.


Me: 38/H:40
M:7yrs
TG: 10yrs
2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old
Bomb 8/22/08
OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old
Moved out 9/22/08

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