SD - Please listen to FIB. He's 100% on this. There is nothing you can say to her that is going to change her mind. I am learning this also and FIB is guiding me.
Get on with your life without her. That may make her see something in you she hasn't seen in a while. Or it may not. But the key will be that you are moving on. Once you do, you will start to feel better.FIB has been right on in my sitch.
I know that pdf is brutal to read. It makes me sick to my stomach!
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.