SD - Please listen to FIB. He's 100% on this. There is nothing you can say to her that is going to change her mind. I am learning this also and FIB is guiding me.

Get on with your life without her. That may make her see something in you she hasn't seen in a while. Or it may not. But the key will be that you are moving on. Once you do, you will start to feel better.FIB has been right on in my sitch.

I know that pdf is brutal to read. It makes me sick to my stomach!


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.