Don't dwell on the BMF incident. Crap happens. You had a moment of weakness that never would have existed before. You didn't go looking for it so no true damage done.
I'm sorry to hear about H's financial situation. I'm curious why you feel you "deserve" to suffer along with him. Is it just because you are M and half of his suffering is legally yours too or is there more to it?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
