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Woman, celebrate the fact that you have made it this far and look at how much of your life is ahead of you to live happily and healthily?


Decided that TODAY. TODAY is new and FRESH. Sure wish I could stay in this mindset more....

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But just try to view things through their distorted glasses a bit. When they haven't done the hard core self work, how can they possibly see YOU differently when they haven't changed?


That is a GREAT way to look at the truth of a marriage break up. if I look through his eyes...which is REALLY hard as everyone knows.. ok ok. I dont like his looking through his casue they are so messed up -- but ok.

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Once you cease the stinkin' thinkin' things are going to seem lighter and happier.


Ok my head hurts- that was a pretty big well deserved 2x4. =)

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Now get on with celebrating your birthday!


My d12 had made a video with her best friend for me BEFORE my birthday - it was so funny and cute and wonderful. It was a skit where she pretends she doesnt know it is my bday..it was funny. Then she sang me a song that she "wrote" just for me. It was seriosully the best present EVER!!

Oh and what did I do for me? I ate almost a pan of brownies HA!! Seriouslly!! I LOVE LOVE LOVE BROWNIES! Got a FREE movie from Hollywood Video because it was my birthday AND WE WATCHED it!! AND went to Quedoba with d12 - and s19 called me TWICE!! \:\)

So after I got up and got going and stopped thinking I had a good day!!


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again