Let's suppose that she doesn't realize she broke your heart (do I laugh now or later?). Wouldn't that mean she doesn't feel pressured or pursued which makes her a bit more amiable and easier to DB? OMG, she pretty much invited you on a date within the next couple of days!
However, if I were in your shoes (man I hope I will be one day), I'd totally play it cool and regretfully decline going out on a weeknight but propose perhaps a Sunday brunch? You're right in that you shouldn't be too available. Time to dust off DR/DB and reread applicable chapters on what to do.
I think enjoying your "single life" is a great thing! I'm really starting to feel like a whole person again as my GAL'ing is starting to pick up some steam. You have to be an independent person before you enter into a co-dependent relationship, no?
Keep up the awesome work! You're trending mighty favorably!
- Me = 32 y/o - WAW = 32 y/o - M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs - No kids - Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08
